Are you one of those who’s asking, “Am I safe?”, “What will
my future look like?”, “Why am I not happy?” ? If yes, this splash of idea
might be worth it for you to read.
Some youngsters live their lives as it is. Go with the flow.
Take me where the wind blows. They don’t really seem to have some kind of
direction or plan to face the future. Whatever they’re doing, they do it
without putting their souls into it. It’s like driving around and around the
city, enjoying the landscape, but having no certain destination. And finally,
the gas will run out and those people will end up nowhere.
While some others live for wealth. They believe that
happiness depends on how much money they have. Having a nice house, good cars,
fancy clothes, and delicious food is a must in determining their level of
happiness. This group of people is more determined than the first one. They
know where to go and they know what they want. Money. The job they look for is
the job that promising a position with great amount of cheque. Sometimes, if
they are lucky enough, the job suits them enough. They should have no heavy
burden to carry the job on. However, in certain cases, the job might lead them
nowhere but boredom and even depression instead. The high payment they receive
couldn’t just sweep away the pressure they feel.
The list of similar types of people can go on and on and on.
Those who search for a job to achieve fame, position, self-pleasure, power,
comfort, lust, you name it. Yet, these people have one common thing, it’s that
they could never be satisfied with what they have gained. They all might seem
happier on the surface compared to the other, but at some point, they will keep
wondering where actually their lives are heading to. Eventually, they’ll
realize that those things are definitely not the answer they’ve been searching
for.
I’ve witnessed such scenario multiple of times in my whole
life. And I don’t have to jump into the same hole to know how horrible it
is. Neither do you, fellas! Let’s learn
from others and it is never too late to take a U-turn, for a better life.
First of all, we need to re-evaluate our goals in life. Make
a goal that is noble and unselfish instead of the “vulnerable” one.
“Vulnerable” refers to all the pointless life goals that I have mentioned
above. Get rid of those temporary things and start to create a higher standard.
You may have your own standard, but to me personally, there is nothing greater
than to live your life for others in order to glorify God.
Once “the goal” is set, you might want to determine your
passion. Never get mixed up between passion and hobby. A hobby is something
you’d love to do without having to lose anything. You do a hobby for fun in
your spare time. Whereas passion is something you don’t mind to die for. It is
so powerful to drive your life become more alive that you’d make time for it
instead of sparing your time for it. You won’t mind sacrificing your resource
(time, effort, money, minds, soul) to do something that you’re passionate
about. Your passion will become the trigger to make you a better person. That
is passion.
Also, don’t get confused between your passion and your
talent. You might be born talented with amazing voice, yet it doesn’t
necessarily mean singing is your passion. A passion is what you enjoy doing
more than anything. And when you’re doing it, it makes you feel like time goes
so fast that you don’t feel like you’re working at all. Therefore, a passion
should be powerful enough to make you train harder for it until you can master
it. You might not be talented with it in the first place, but if it is your
passion, it can make you be one.
Now, what if I’m not doing what I love to do at the moment?
Well, let’s not be afraid of making extreme changes. Stop for a moment, think,
make a decision, leave all the things seem pointless, and start doing “the
right thing”. Some people might be against your decision. Let me tell you that
it is normal. There will always be pros and cons. But the most important thing
is that you need to be firm and open minded in the same time. Thank them for
giving you all of their considerations towards your decision (it could mean
they still care for you) and later you can explain your reasons to them. The
most possible outcome is that there will be a mutual respect happening between
you and them. Keep in mind that in order to challenge the status quo, we need
to have a strong eagerness.
My expectation is, at the end you’ll find out that your life
become much more fun and meaningful by living out your passion. Happiness is
far beyond money. Success is not merely about being rich or famous. Don’t be
slack with your life that you can measure it with some nominal, it is too damn
worthy. Cheers!
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